In fact, TA still loves you, where do you go from here?

At the crossroads of relationships, we often encounter such confusion: obviously feel that the other person still has himself in his heart, but why the relationship has come to such a rigid situation? Those unspoken cares, those late-night silent concerns, all seem to tell an unfinished story. When you realize that TA still loves you, the complexity of the emotion is like a mess, so that people both want to unravel, but also afraid of pulling the pain.

We always say that the most difficult thing in love is to love each other, but more difficult is how to misunderstandings, quarrels, cold war, but also to find that initial heart. Many times, it is not that you don’t love anymore, but you don’t know how to continue to love. Just like in the movie “Ex 3: Goodbye Ex”, Meng Yun and Lin Jia obviously love each other deeply, but because of repeated misunderstandings and small things, they end up missing each other. Their story, which made countless viewers teary-eyed, also makes us wonder: if they could have communicated a little more and understood a little more at the time, would the ending have been different?

When you realize that TA still loves you, the first thing to do is to be quiet and ask your own heart. You still love TA? Is this love still worth your efforts to salvage? Sometimes we hesitate because we are afraid of getting hurt again or we are uncertain about the future. But remember, love is never smooth sailing, it requires effort and persistence from both parties.

Next, try to have a deep conversation with your TA. Choose a suitable time, a quiet environment, so that each other can put down their defenses and communicate sincerely. Don’t point fingers, don’t complain, just simply share your feelings and listen to TA’s thoughts. Perhaps the misunderstanding between you is due to a lack of communication. During the conversation, you may realize that it turns out that TA has been waiting for you to open up, and you have been waiting for TA’s response.

If, after the conversation, you decide to give each other a chance, then the next path needs to be taken more cautiously. Rebuilding trust and repairing a relationship is like rebuilding a bridge that has been destroyed by the elements, it takes time and patience. During this process, try setting some small goals, such as cooking together once a week and going to each other’s favorite places once a month. These seemingly insignificant little things, but can little by little accumulate the emotional bond between you.

At the same time, learn to accept each other’s imperfections. In love, no one is completely right or ever wrong. Everyone has their own shortcomings and short boards, the key is whether we are willing to change and grow for each other. When you start to accept and appreciate TA’s imperfections, you will find that your relationship becomes more relaxed and comfortable.

Of course, if, after much effort, you realize that the rift between you and each other is irreparable, then letting go is also a form of love. Sometimes, letting go doesn’t mean losing, but rather allowing each other to find happiness that is more suitable for you. In the process, learn to let go, learn to bless, and let the past become a good memory, not a heavy burden.

Finally, I would like to say that love is a practice, it teaches us how to love and how to be loved. When you realize that TA still loves you, please cherish this destiny and bravely face and solve the problems between you. Regardless of the outcome, at least you have worked hard and fought for it, which is enough. Remember, the best look of love is not perfect, but even if it is not perfect, you are still willing to walk hand in hand.