Most girls are very fragile, when they meet their favorite person, in fact, the heart are not sure each other is not the right person, so they will be from a variety of details 360 degrees to observe him!

So, as a guy should be how to pay attention to the details of the date?

Boys want to be able to meet on the first date to successfully give the girl a good impression. But a lot of times the date will be ruined in the details.

First of all, you need to have a girl to ask, but this can rely on your own efforts a little bit, can not grasp the taste of each girl – but congratulations, dating out on the edge of the pass, at least she is interested in you have a little bit.

However, all of this is just to let you stand on the ring ticket, do not think that as long as the courage to go forward and work hard, the girl’s hand will sooner or later give you to hold, if you do not know to pay attention to the details, it will only be silently deducted points to zero.

When you start the first date, a good restaurant is definitely the first choice, however, do not think that as long as they will buy a single reservation to eat without dropping chips, this date will allow you to get out of the ranks of the Ru Snake; the following selection of four points you absolutely did not notice the details, to ensure that even if you are not very good at chatting, the girl will not be too speechless to you:

Dating details a: after the door do not go straight ahead, a horse first a little bit not MAN!

Open the door may be the boys of this, but the selection is the talent of the girls, unless there is a waiter to arrange can not choose, or else the girls are most likely to have a hidden preference for the location. By the wall, facing the window, away from the kitchen, wide location, every girl has their own ruler in their heart, mind sitting position comfortable or not.

So, I emphasize again, let the girl choose the table she feels appropriate, and then you sit directly across from her position – please remember to be directly across from the position, unless there is no choice, otherwise the first date avoid sitting on her left and right side, pretending to be familiar with the absolute will be your biggest blunder.

Dating details two: not sit well sit full on all right, the girl’s bag should also have its place!

Boys are very easy to ignore this focus, boys do not bring bags can be over a day, girls things but often more than days, bags, coats, umbrellas, just bought shopping bags, unless she is next to the space just can be put in a good place to put full, or else the boys if the sharp eye noticed that she was busy with her hands and feet.

Boys do not just focus on looking at the menu, as long as the thoughtfulness to say, “Come to my side to you to put umbrellas,” your small actions can make girls look at your eyes began to be full of expectations.

Dating details three: casual does not mean easy, opinionated can not have no opinion!

Even the strongest girls, the bottom of the heart will secretly appreciate the very cover of the person, so whether the restaurant is not your choice, be sure to do your homework beforehand, you must eat private signature is a steak or chicken fillet, green sauce and white sauce how to choose, when the girls began to hesitate to point out what the dishes are, is the moment you play on the spot.

Remember that casual does not mean easy, no opinion will make people question your personality, you can recommend later to respect her choice, but don’t forget to tell her sweet, it’s okay to eat I’m responsible for.
Dating details four: cold find your own topic, absolutely not allowed to slip the phone

Now many people are addicted to cell phones, but the first date crazy slip cell phone is definitely a taboo, the feelings between people are mostly from small things on the pin, she will think you marry the phone can also be. If you really want to look at your cell phone, make sure you put it back within three seconds, and then continue to ask her what she was talking about, or ask her if she wants to order some ice cream.

Dating is full of unspoken rules, and it’s easy for a newcomer to be let off the hook by accident. In fact, there’s only one unchanging truth, and that’s that being attentive will always make you a winner, rather than memorizing all the rules of the game, which will only get you let off the hook faster. The only way to win is to be attentive to what she needs and help her accomplish it before she even asks.

These “dating etiquette”, some “unintentional” can become “intentional”, each one is a buff plus!
These actions are not allowed on a date
Scratch your head and look around.
Some guys are always unnatural in front of girls, a moment to play with the phone, a moment to look around. For guys it’s nothing, for girls it won’t escape their eyes.

Excessive leaning of the body.

Men who stand straight and sit properly will always give people a kind of majesty. And on a date with a girl, the body is excessively forward, will give the girl a sense of oppression, will make the girl nervous.

Shaking legs.

As the old saying goes: shaking your legs is easy to loose money, those who shake their legs do not know how many billions of dollars of wealth shaken off. Maybe other people can’t find or don’t care, but girls are born to pay attention to small details that you can’t see.

Speaking without looking at each other.

Chatting with someone, but the eyes did not look at each other, but look at the phone, or look elsewhere, you yourself put yourself in a different position, you and others chat, others are looking at something else, or play with the phone, what will you think? Will you have a good impression on a date with a girl?

So what do you need to be ready for a date?

Time.

It’s best to ask each other out about 35 days in advance. Not too early, it will seem too grand and polite; not too late, so that the other party is not caught off guard.

Remember to reconfirm the day before the date.

If it is the first meeting, in fact, it is recommended that it is best to ask about lunch or afternoon tea, so that the time is more mobile and flexible, but also does not cause the girl to go home too late with your first meeting is embarrassing.

Location

It is best to choose the date location in the girl transportation is more convenient, and you are more familiar with, and quiet place. The “noise” can make the girl feel safe, “quiet” and can ensure the relative privacy of the date. For example, the business district around the western restaurant, semi-open private rooms, her home near the cafe and so on.
Dress code
Before you meet her, be sure to take a shower and check your fingernails to see if they need to be trimmed, so I won’t emphasize that too much.
Change into a clean, well-fitting outfit, formal or not, depending on the nature of your date. You must know that if you are going to a western restaurant, don’t wear short sleeves.

Spray some perfume or clothing scent that is not overpowering or pungent.

Transportation

If you have a car, you can offer to pick up and drop off, get in and out of the car remember to help the girl to open the door, gently protect the girl’s head with your hand so as not to hit, this action is very small and simple, but the girl must remember.

If you don’t have a car, you can wait at the place where you’ve made an appointment and arrive a little earlier than the appointed time. (Remember to take care of reservations in advance for places that require them, and line up a good number in advance for restaurants that don’t.)
Entering the store.

You open the door and ask the girls to go in first.

Pull the chair and ask the girl to be seated first.

Ordering food

Familiarize yourself a little with the restaurant’s dishes and menu before the date, then let the girl order first, and after she’s done you can smile and ask her, “Would you like to add another xx?”

If the other party is not very good at ordering, or insist that you order, then you try to pick something exquisite.

For example, there is “black pepper beef tenderloin” such as seemingly high style and convenient to eat, do not order “sweet and sour pork” such as the need for two people on the hand grabbed open mouth to gnaw on the dishes. Not to mention girls, even guys don’t eat very well.
Remember to ask each other if they have any taboos.

The first date is not recommended too spicy stimulation, or with a lot of garlic ah cumin ah curry ah and other stimulating spices of food.
Don’t order alcohol if you’re driving.

Don’t order alcohol without driving unless the girl initiates it. Eating
The girl takes the first bite.

If you want to give her food, remember to ask for an extra set of chopsticks to use (this point is actually rarely noticed, but it really pokes the girl! I highly recommend it!)

If you need to call for a waiter. If you need to call a waiter, always say “hello”/“please”/“may I”/“thank you”. Don’t “hello” or “eh”.
No matter men or women, don’t shake your legs and mouth when you eat; don’t talk when you have food in your mouth.

Don’t play with your cell phone, unless there is a phone call, call can be appropriate to avoid, but don’t leave too long.

Topics of conversation

Do not ask each other too much privacy at the first meeting, and focus the exchange on the hobbies of both sides.

You can tell some jokes to liven up the atmosphere, but do not use the words “a friend of mine” / “relatives” / “customers” too often.

Paying the bill
Pay the bill when the girl goes to the restroom or when you go to the restroom.

In person, don’t take out a bunch of cash if you can swipe your credit card.

It’s best if the bill is reversed so the girl doesn’t see it
On a first date, you should never ask for an invoice, promise me okay. (Not that it’s wrong to ask for an invoice, it’s just that on a first date this move on your part will give the girl a slightly creepy feeling that you’re going back for reimbursement.)

If both parties feel like talking to each other during the meal, you can try to propose follow-up activities such as watching a movie or going shopping. (Follow-up activities you have to think well in advance as plan b to use, if the meal to chat happily try to put forward, and vice versa, then discarded.)

Control your pace on the road to match the girl’s speed, don’t walk too fast.

When you cross the street, remember to stand on the side of the car to protect the girl.

The End
If you have a car, take a ride, if you don’t have a car, take a taxi or walk her to the station. Anyway, it must be you who watch the girl leave.

If the girl’s home is close by, you can walk her to the station, provided of course that the other party does not refuse.

Look at the time almost ask the girl has arrived home safely, whether the date is successful or not, to express thanks and happy.