However, in fact, the details are not only to defeat love, he is also able to achieve love, and even said, many girls fall in love with each other may be the reason for the small details of the date, these details can show a person’s character, but also express a person’s qualities, so the mind teacher to give you a talk, dating needs to pay attention to what small details.

One: keep a good mindset
Nowadays, boys have a common trait: pretending to be old-fashioned, to put it bluntly, it is an evolved version of the previous pretending to be deep, and the girl met with a word or only a few words, stereotypical and serious during the exchange.
I have more than once heard girls complain: recently and I’m dating a boy as serious as my father, there are a lot of boys once they see the girl they like will not speak, stuttering, holding the face red do not know what to say, these are not the right mindset triggered by the problem.
During the dating period, the boys must remember to use the young man’s way to chat, the young man’s way to chat is how?
To sum up is more flirting less didactic, keep humor, every move has the spirit of vitality.
As a simple example, what should I say when a girl is late for her first girl date?
Wrong demonstration: “Coming ah, the road traffic jam?”
This way is normal for men and women who are already in a relationship, but on men and women who are just dating, it is easy to give each other the feeling of being formal and fake polite.
So the correct way to demonstrate this should be, “Five minutes late yo, if not for the sake of your pure little face, I am going to punish you.”
A sentence to draw closer to each other, while erasing the embarrassment of being late, two birds with one stone, why not?

Two: Listen to each other more and brag less about yourself
The first date, be sure to pay attention to listening, because the girl is willing to open up to you, willing to share your life with you, is her psychological resistance to you, on the date with a comfortable performance, this time you do not interrupt her in any case, and to do a qualified listener.
What does it mean to be a qualified listener? You can recapitulate 80 percent of her speech from memory, and follow her thoughts, when necessary, to provide some guiding suggestions.
Listening at the same time do not brag too much about themselves, untimely and unlimited display of their own is very low and very annoying, if the dating process, you have been nagging to say that the girl wants to talk but can not insert the mouth, it is estimated that you will not have the next date.
Do in the feeling will be cold before taking over the topic, in the girl said the rise of listening carefully, as much as possible to improve the comfort of the date is your main purpose.

3: Create a perfect date from the details
Dating only two words, but before the date you need to prepare things are a lot, this preparation is not haphazard preparation of anything with, not blindly worry about dating Goji, according to the fact that the starting point to prepare for the things that may be used, in order to greatly improve the other party’s dating experience.