Men and women dating, the emergence of these “details”, often “mutual favor”

First, eye contact, smile in response
As the saying goes, “The eyes are the windows to the soul.”
In dating, eye contact can be too important.
Two people meet for the first time, if the eyes unintentionally meet together, who did not immediately avoid, but also can stay for a short while, this is actually a potential signal.
As the saying goes, “True love is when the eyes meet and you can’t avoid it.”
If in the moment of eye contact, both sides can also give each other a warm smile, then this kind of good feeling expression will be even clearer.
When you like someone, you can’t hide the joy in your eyes.
If you don’t like someone, your eyes will be cold and even impatient.
For example, in a date, the boy Li and the girl Wang after meeting, the eyes always unconsciously look at each other, every time the eyes meet, both will smile in response.
This interaction of eyes and smiles made the atmosphere between the two of them particularly cozy.
Xiao Li felt that Xiao Wang’s eyes had stars in them, and Xiao Wang felt that Xiao Li’s smile was very charming.
In their hearts, in fact, they have begun to have a good feeling about each other.
But if you don’t have good feelings for each other, your eyes may just touch briefly and then move away immediately, and the smile on your face will be especially stiff and forced.
Second, active listening, positive response
In the movie “To Youth”, Chen Xiaozheng and Zheng Wei dating, Chen Xiaozheng always listen carefully to Zheng Wei, but also actively give a response.
This is the performance of mutual favor.
When a person has a favorable impression of you, when dating, they will actively listen to you, will not interrupt, will give you feedback with eyes and expressions, so that you feel valued.
For example, when a boy, Xiao Zhang, and a girl, Xiao Liu, went on a date, Xiao Liu told her about her work experience, and Xiao Zhang not only listened attentively, but also asked questions and expressed her opinion at the right time.
Liu feels that Zhang understands her, and Zhang understands her better because of Liu’s sharing.
On the other hand, if one of the parties in the date is always talking on their own, not paying attention to the other party’s words, or just responding perfunctorily, then it is likely that they do not have a good feeling.
Like a time, boys Wang and girls Li dating, Li has been talking about their hobbies, Wang is distracted, on occasion, “Well”, “Oh” a few times, Li soon realized that Wang is not interested in their own, the date will not be happy.
Third, the body close to the unintentional touch
When two people have a good feeling about each other, the body will unconsciously close to each other.
If you don’t have a good feeling, you will keep a distance on purpose.
For example, in a date, the boy Xiao Zhao and the girl Xiao Qian sit a piece of chat, Xiao Zhao will slowly close to Xiao Qian, Xiao Qian did not avoid.
Occasionally, their arms will unintentionally touch each other, each other do not resent, but there is a subtle feeling in their hearts.
But if you don’t have a good feeling, and one of you approaches, the other may subconsciously avoid it or show obvious resistance.
Thinking back to those unappealing dating scenes, both parties always sit far away from each other, and their body language expresses rejection and indifference.
This kind of physical distance and the reaction when inadvertently touching, just can tell whether it is mutual favor.