The first step for a woman to become strong is actually to be selfish

First, do not take the people around you too seriously, and do not think too long yesterday’s events in real life, just take into account the immediate happiness and wonderful, the more focused, the more tough;
Secondly, selfish women, in fact, is not bad at all, but know the value is the highest level of exchange with people chips, what feelings ah, what righteousness ah, to the time of the interests of the trade-offs, if you have no chips, but also is the biggest defeat;
Third, if a woman wants to become strong, you have to go through some tribulations, the good give you encouragement, the bad give you sharpen, you can always reap the height of their own life.