First, the sense of distance quietly grows, she is no longer active

In love, distance is one of the most intuitive signals. When a woman began to reduce contact with you, no longer take the initiative to initiate a conversation, even when you take the initiative to contact, but also just a short response, then, this may be the first hint that she wants to end the relationship. She is no longer sharing life’s moments, no longer asking about your daily life, this silence, like the cold ice in winter, silently eroding the emotional bond between you. As Anne Baby wrote in “Sober Chronicles”, “Human relationships are sometimes like a scarf in winter, warm, want to strangle more tightly, but strangled too tightly, and easy to suffocate.” When this relationship makes people feel uncomfortable, she will instinctively pull away.

Second, emotional communication becomes perfunctory, she no longer listens

True love, built on the depth of emotional communication. When a woman began to show impatience with your words, or respond to appear perfunctory, no longer listen carefully as before, which may mean that her emotions have changed. There is less light in her eyes and more indifference in her tone, as if to say, “Your words can no longer touch my heart.” As depicted by Eileen Chang in Red Rose and White Rose, “Perhaps every man has had two such women, at least two. Married red roses, over time, the red became a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, white or ‘bed before the moonlight’; married white roses, white is a grain of rice sticky clothes stained, red is the mouth of the heart of a vermilion sand mole.” When she became a mosquito blood from a mole in your heart, the emotional exchange will lose temperature.

Third, the future planning no longer have you, she began to independent

In love, the most romantic than common planning for the future. But when the woman began to act independently, no longer will you into her future planning, this may be the most direct hint that she wants to end the relationship. She may talk about her dreams and goals, but those blueprints no longer include you. She begins to prepare for her future, whether it’s in school, work or life, and seems more and more independent, as if to say, “You are no longer an integral part of my world.” As Haruki Murakami wrote in Norwegian Wood, “Everyone has their own piece of forest, maybe we have never been there, but it has always been there, will always be there. Those who are lost are lost, those who meet will meet again.” When she decides to step out of the forest you share to find her own sky, that is her final decision to want to end the relationship.

In the long river of love, these hints from women are like whispers in the wind, light but clear. As a man, know how to listen, know how to understand, is the best respect for each other. When these signals appear, may as well be honest, give each other a decent goodbye, let the past become a good memory, rather than a painful entanglement. Remember, the most beautiful look of love is always the two love, not wishful thinking.